Have you lost contact or feel you are losing contact with your child(ren)?
Have you lost contact or feel you are losing contact with your child(ren)?
Our mission is to help guide and prepare 100,000 fathers
to reunite with their children
"It works, it's worth it. There's no silver bullet. You have to work the program. You can't take a magic pill and so you're gonna have to take action, but this is the first step and you need to do it."
A counterintuitive approach to
parental alienation
Guidance on how to deal with and cope with parental alienation
If you've found your way here, chances are you're grappling with feelings of loss, isolation, and uncertainty about the future with your child(ren). Whether it's due to divorce, parental alienation, or a series of unforeseen events, you might be struggling to regain your footing and find a positive way forward.
Know this: you are not alone in your journey.
As a father, your role in your children's lives is irreplaceable. You're their protector, their guide, and their role model. However, when you are unable to see or spend time with them, continuing to fulfill these roles can seem like an insurmountable challenge. It's natural to feel frustrated and uncertainty about the next steps. That's where we step in.
Our guided and self-guided programs along with our supportive community are here to provide the guidance and support that fathers facing the heart-wrenching experience of losing contact with their children or enduring prolonged parental alienation need.
We specialize in helping fathers navigate the intricate challenges of parental alienation. For those in the early stages, we offer invaluable insights gathered from the experiences of hundreds of fathers, experts, and children who have walked a similar path.
These insights help you avoid common pitfalls and build a stronger bond.
For fathers who have been separated from their children for extended periods, we offer a clear pathway to prepare you to reunite.
Our approach might seem counterintuitive, but it's a powerful solution to a complex problem. If this resonates with you, take the first step now and schedule your application call. Your journey towards reconnection starts here.
What our fathers are saying
Sharing the positive impact within their lives
"I think that's the biggest thing is the amount of peace that I've achieved in just seven weeks is just staggering."
"For the first time in seven years, I feel more like myself than I have since all of, since my world started crashing down. I'm so grateful. It's not even funny."
"You'll never understand the depth of that gratitude, but there's a lot of gratitude for you."
"My dad got to see all his grandkids for the first time, something I never thought would happen"
What is 100k Fathers ?
100k Fathers is not about being the victim with focussing your time and energy thinking about what role your ex has taken in you not seeing your kids or potentially how she has influenced your kids so they start saying they don’t want to spend time with you.
This is about preparing you for the time in the future when you will have the first phone call or meeting with your kid/s. Are you ready for those difficult questions and volatile emotions?
There are many common but often unknown mistakes that fathers make that can easily push your kids away from you during these initial interactions.
There are very few options available to a father to reunite with his kids. Most often advice provided to the father is to not give up and to fight this in court.
If you look up the definition of “fight”, the result will look something like “a violent confrontation or struggle.” or “to contend in battle or physical combat especially: to strive to overcome a person by blows or weapons” The outcome is always one and often both parties lose (Except for the lawyers).
My question is, what are you wanting to achieve and what does success look like with you and your kids?
Do you want to see your kids through court ordered 50/50? Well, this is possible but at what cost? How sustainable will your relationship be with your kids when they are forced to see you? A judge cannot make your kids love you.
Reuniting with your kids takes a few stages. We see success as your kids wanting to see you and then together spending quality and meaningful time as a guardian and mentor in their lives.
This is a journey where you will realize your full potential as a father and a man through building the pillars in your life and turning your life into an incredible upward spiral.
Our mission is to help guide and prepare 100,000 fathers to reunite with their children
"It works, it's worth it. There's no silver bullet. You have to work the program. You can't take a magic pill and so you're gonna have to take action, but this is the first step and you need to do it."
A counterintuitive approach on how to deal with and cope with parental alienation
If you've found your way here, chances are you're grappling with feelings of loss, isolation, and uncertainty about the future with your child(ren). Whether it's due to divorce, parental alienation, or a series of unforeseen events, you might be struggling to regain your footing and find a positive way forward.
Know this: you are not alone in your journey.
As a father, your role in your children's lives is irreplaceable. You're their protector, their guide, and their role model. However, when you are unable to see or spend time with them, continuing to fulfill these roles can seem like an insurmountable challenge. It's natural to feel frustrated and uncertainty about the next steps. That's where we step in.
Our guided and self-guided programs along with our supportive community are here to provide the guidance and support that fathers facing the heart-wrenching experience of losing contact with their children or enduring prolonged parental alienation need.
We specialize in helping fathers navigate the intricate challenges of parental alienation. For those in the early stages, we offer invaluable insights gathered from the experiences of hundreds of fathers, experts, and children who have walked a similar path.
These insights help you avoid common pitfalls and build a stronger bond.
For fathers who have been separated from their children for extended periods, we offer a clear pathway to prepare you to reunite.
Our approach might seem counterintuitive, but it's a powerful solution to a complex problem. If this resonates with you, take the first step now and schedule your application call. Your journey towards reconnection starts here.
Are you facing these challenges?
How is your life being impacted?
- Your Children: My children's behavior and attitude are becoming increasingly aggressive and hostile towards me or they refuse to see me. Everything I have tried to do only seems to worsen things.
- Nobody Understands: I'm having a hard time getting anyone to understand what is happening; friends and family just tell me to 'hang in there, and 'everything will be ok, or you have to just fight this, but they just don't get it.
- Institutions and Professionals: The institutions and people I have turned to for help, the Courts, lawyers, and family therapists, have done little to nothing; they have often made it worse.
- Focus and Enjoyment: I'm struggling to focus on the things that used to be easy for me and that I enjoyed. My performance at work is impacted, and I'm struggling to get back on track.
- Relationship: I push away the people closest to me, and significant relationships suffer.
- General Wellbeing: I feel like I have become a shell of the man and father I once was. I can't sleep, my health is declining, and I am and uncertain about how this plays out.
Experience of our fathers
Sharing the positive impact within their lives
"I think that's the biggest thing is the amount of peace that I've achieved in just seven weeks is just staggering."
"My dad got to see all his grandkids for the first time, something I never thought would happen."
"For the first time in seven years, I feel more like myself than I have since all of, since my world started crashing down. I'm so grateful. It's not even funny."
"This is when you focus on yourself to rebuild and become the best version of yourself in preparation for when they return. When I do see them, I'll be the best version of myself."
"You'll never understand the depth of that gratitude, but there's a lot of gratitude for you."
What is 100k Fathers?
100k Fathers is not about being the victim with focussing your time and energy thinking about what role your ex has taken in you not seeing your kids or potentially how she has influenced your kids so they start saying they don’t want to spend time with you.
This is about preparing you for the time in the future when you will have the first phone call or meeting with your kid/s. Are you ready for those difficult questions and volatile emotions?
There are many common but often unknown mistakes that fathers make that can easily push your kids away from you during these initial interactions.
There are very few options available to a father to reunite with his kids. Most often advice provided to the father is to not give up and to fight this in court.
If you look up the definition of “fight”, the result will look something like “a violent confrontation or struggle.” or “to contend in battle or physical combat especially: to strive to overcome a person by blows or weapons” The outcome is always one and often both parties lose (Except for the lawyers).
My question is, what are you wanting to achieve and what does success look like with you and your kids?
Do you want to see your kids through court ordered 50/50? Well, this is possible but at what cost? How sustainable will your relationship be with your kids when they are forced to see you? A judge cannot make your kids love you.
Reuniting with your kids takes a few stages. We see success as your kids wanting to you and then together spending quality and meaningful time as a guardian and mentor in their lives.
This is a journey where you will realize your full potential as a father and a man through building the pillars in your life and turning your life into an incredible upward spiral.
Are you facing these challenges?
How is your life being impacted?
- Your Children: My children's behavior and attitude are becoming increasingly aggressive and hostile towards me or they refuse to see me. Everything I have tried to do only seems to worsen things.
- Nobody Understands: I'm having a hard time getting anyone to understand what is happening; friends and family just tell me to 'hang in there, and 'everything will be ok, or you have to just fight this, but they just don't get it.
- Institutions and Professionals: The institutions and people I have turned to for help, the Courts, lawyers, and family therapists, have done little to nothing; they have often made it worse.
- Focus and Enjoyment: I'm struggling to focus on the things that used to be easy for me and that I enjoyed. My performance at work is impacted, and I'm struggling to get back on track.
- Relationship: I push away the people closest to me, and significant relationships suffer.
- General Wellbeing: I feel like I have become a shell of the man and father I once was. I can't sleep, my health is declining, and I am and uncertain about how this plays out.
Upward Spiral foundations guided program
Program duration: 8 Weeks
This is a personalized one-on-one program designed to help you navigate the complexities of parental alienation.
At its core, this is an accelerated 8-week journey, providing you with the tools and insights to prepare you to reunite with your children and to strengthen the bonds with them.
Led by the founder of 100k Fathers, Garry, who has successfully reunited with his own children, this program is adapted to your current stage. Together, we concentrate on three pivotal areas: Strenghten the relationships with your child(ren) and partner (if applicable) along with your mind and body.
Built upon the collective experiences of fathers worldwide, our program continues to be refined and improved. Guidance takes place over Zoom and includes support throughout the 8-week program and access to our private community of fathers.
Upward spiral foundations program
Program duration: 8 Weeks
This is a personalized one-on-one program designed to help you navigate the complexities of parental alienation.
At its core, this is an accelerated 8-week journey, providing you with the tools and insights to prepare you to reunite with your children and to strengthen the bonds with them.
Led by the founder of 100k Fathers, Garry, who has successfully reunited with his own children, this program is adapted to your current stage. Together, we concentrate on three pivotal areas: Strenghten the relationships with your child(ren) and partner (if applicable) along with your mind and body.
Built upon the collective experiences of fathers worldwide, our program continues to be refined and improved. Guidance takes place over Zoom and includes support throughout the 8-week program and access to our private community of fathers.
Upward Spiral self-guided program
Immediate Access: You'll gain immediate access to informative videos designed to help you quickly understand the complexities of parental alienation so you can start to see progress
This self-guided program has been created specifically for fathers who are on the brink of losing or have already lost contact with their sons and daughters. The program helps fathers to become the best version of themselves in preparation to reunite with their children along with insights from alienated children, parents, and experts.
Important
- You will get out of our programs and community what you put in. Nobody can force you to make the changes in your life that will lead you to a healthier place. We can show you that path, but only you can choose to walk it.
- We are not licensed, mental health professionals. We are all fathers that have vast experience with losing contact with our children due to a sequence of life events and/or parental alienation
- We don’t offer any guarantees or make any false promises that you will reconnect with your children
- We don’t have a magic pill or easy button for you to solve this problem
- We do not provide any legal support or advice
"Some of the things that have helped me more than anything is just getting the new perspective."
"This is when you focus on yourself to rebuild and become the best version of yourself in preparation for when they return. When I do see them, I'll be the best version of myself."
Upward Spiral self-guided program
Immediate Access: You'll gain immediate access to informative videos designed to help you quickly understand the complexities of parental alienation so you can start to see progress
This self-guided program has been created specifically for fathers who are on the brink of losing or have already lost contact with their sons and daughters.
The program helps fathers to become the best version of themselves in preparation to reunite with their children along with insights from alienated children, parents, and experts
Important:
- You will get out of our programs and community what you put in. Nobody can force you to make the changes in your life that will lead you to a healthier place. We can show you that path, but only you can choose to walk it.
- We are not licensed, mental health professionals. We are all fathers that have vast experience with losing contact with our children due to a sequence of life events and/or parental alienation
- We don’t offer any guarantees or make any false promises that you will reconnect with your children
- We don’t have a magic pill or easy button for you to solve this problem
- We do not provide any legal support or advice
"Some of the things that have helped me more than anything is just getting the new perspective."
"It works, it's worth it. There's no silver bullet. You have to work the program. You can't take a magic pill and so you're gonna have to take action, but this is the first step and you need to do it."
